Why Focusing?

We need to focus on things which are important for us rather than wasting our time doing what is not needed. Number of times, we think that we are doing the right things for us but in reality, we are not halfway there yet. Don’t you all agree with me? If yes, nod your heads!

In life, we need to know what is vital for us and what we want in our lives and for that we need to grab our attention and decide what we want to do now rather than thinking about the future. We should not sit idle and wait for things to be done for us in fact, we should try to do things which can help us! We must know what is that we want to aim at and get a hold of it before it gets too late for us.

Focusing on important things in life gives us a way to live and enjoy our time. We have something to look forward to achieving our dreams and goals!

To become something in life, we need to focus on things so that our mind won’t drift away, and we don’t forget our ambitions!

Focusing Meaning to Me

F- Finding the right purpose.

O- On the track.

C- Continuing to work hard.

U- Understanding what is important!

S- Setting some goals.

I- In new ways.

N- Not being scared to any challenges.

G- Getting up and not giving up on obstacles!

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The Ego

Everyone has an ego that comes up in their lives in a point of time. There are many situations and there will be situations which will make us go through things which might hurt our egos.

Things We Should Do To Stop Hurting Our Egos!

  1. Speak politely and with respect to others in career and personal life.
  2. Avoid doing things which leads to hurting the ego.
  3. Men and women’s egos are the same no one is bigger always keep this in mind before behaving badly.
  4. Controlling our anger in difficult situations.

There are chances that men think always that they can say anything to everyone, and it is okay to do that, but they don’t realize that their words can prick someone’s ego so terribly that the person can be affected in a negative way.

The ego can be big or small, but it shouldn’t come between others no matter what the situation is and how it is!

To Me Ego is ending grudges out of our system if we can, it will be helpful!

Trusting Our Instincts!

There are many things that come in our lives that make us know what will happen at that moment because we feel it and number of times it becomes true. Don’t you all agree with me?

In life, there are situations that prepare us for many different challenges, and we should be brave enough to handle them. Sometimes, we get a hint from our instincts that something is going to happen, and we should be alert.

Instincts come to us at a glance for something and for someone. They are like fast thoughts that come and go just like a blink of an eye!

Trusting our instincts is difficult because we don’t know whether it is a positive thing or a negative thing that will turn out to be.

These are the words that come to my mind when I think of instinct.

  • Confused
  • Mixed feelings
  • Right
  • Trusting
  • Wrong
  • Undecided

Are these some of your words too which comes to your mind?

Our Society’s Opinions!

Several times, the society that we are living in, forms opinions about us without thinking and knowing too!

Our society is demotivating and trying to make us weak by talking negative things for us and they should not do this at all, in fact the society should encourage everyone in a positive way!

On the other hand, we shouldn’t get affected by the society and we should show them that we are capable of doing things which they think that we can’t! We should learn how to reply to the society, and we shouldn’t stay quiet. The society questions us and we should not give them any reason to question!

The society includes a bunch of people and especially ladies who loves gossiping about us and they would be talking nonstop! They would find reasons in us and make us feel that we are not doing the right thing that we are supposed to be doing!

People will keep talking and talking but we shouldn’t react in fact we should take their talks as a challenge and prove them that they are wrong about us! The society will never stop judging us and they won’t change the way they think!

Trying Never Fails!

We should try everything out in life no matter how hard the things seem for us! There is no limit for trying anything, we can try as many times as we want to, and no one can stop us from doing that.

In this world, we face many hardships, and we go through several ups and downs that we think that it is impossible to do anything that we wished for. We shouldn’t think this way at all, in fact we should try until we succeed.

There is no harm in trying and we are not losing anything because trying helps us to learn new things and it makes us gain experiences too.

Everyone should try with full enthusiasm and lots of hard work in whatever they aim for then they will accomplish everything that they desire in life!

Trying is worth it because it helps us know our strengths and weakness and at the same time it challenges us to how to deal with things that are new for us!

Albert Einstein had tried ninety-nine times, but he failed but when he reached the 100th time he had become successful!

This tells us that trying never fails and we should always give it a try because we might achieve our goals someday definitely.

Ways to Decrease Poverty!

Poverty is a topic that is going around the world for many years now! For example, in Africa and some parts of India, several people are dying because they don’t have enough to eat and drink! Several people in these two countries are suffering because they can’t get the right education which they require.

I feel sad seeing these people suffer like that and I wish that I could help them in any way I could! Africa is a poor country, and there are small children that are dying because of lack of food and water. There has to be a way where we can aid these types of people and get them what they need.

As time passes by, poverty increases day by day and we are not able to do anything about it! We should try our best to do something for these people in Africa and India as well. We should give charity to them and organize some events which will make the people feel happier and put a smile on their faces too.

Ways To Help Them:

  • Distribute food & water.
  • Send clothes to them for free so they will be warm enough!
  • Give all the children school’s uniforms for free so that they could go to school.
  • These people don’t have to worry about school’s fees, we will take care of it.
  • Hire people for work so that these people can feed their families!
  • Organize events for all children where they can be entertained.

These are some of the ways that I think where we can reduce some poverty in these countries which are Africa and India!

Reflection on a Course!

Recently, I have completed an online course named English for Journalism from Coursera. English for Journalism is a great course who want to improve their language skills and know about journalism too!

I have learned several useful tips in this course which will help me in writing great articles! English punctuation, grammar, and spelling are important elements that makes a good journalist and a writer as well! This course has assignments, games, quizzes, and readings too. It is a 5-week course, but I have finished in about 4 weeks!

I’m glad that I did this course because I found it interesting and knowledgeable at the same time. It feels great receiving a certificate too!

Learning something new is fun always and it is a lovely experience also!

Now, times have been changed and learning has become easy, since everything is online; we can educate ourselves just by sitting at home!

Fighting for Our Rights!

We all have rights to do anything that we want to in our life.

However, there are some things that we don’t have rights to do, but we should fight for them always no matter how hard they are!

Here are 7 rights that I am sharing with you all:

  • Women should be encouraged to do everything too!
  • Ladies should be treated fairly just like men!
  • Girls should be allowed to speak up and give their opinions about everything they see and hear.
  • Men women should be respectful to each other in their workplaces.
  • Each individual has the right to live his or her life as they would wish to!
  • Never underestimate a woman’s capabilities or challenge them!
  • Women are capable to make all wise decisions about everything no matter for their careers and personal lives!

These are my 7 rights that I think that we should all fight for and make changes to so that no one will stop us from getting our rights!

Equality in Genders!

There are some people in our society that differentiate in genders meaning they give more rights to men than they do for women! This happens in small towns where people are not educated like us. For example, many girls are not being educated in small cities of India because their parents think that girls are supposed to not go to school rather, they should get married while the boys should be educated and become something in their life.

I hate it when these people don’t treat the girls the same way as they do to boys! I strongly believe that both should be treated equally, and with full respect no matter what the gender is it and where does they come from?

From time to time, there are people who are changing and supporting their daughters and allowing them to do what they want in their lives. Slowly, they are adapting to the modern world and giving girls more freedom and rights!

In the 21st century, men and women are equal in everything they do! In fact, women have achieved more success than men! They are competing with each other! Women can do everything which men can!

Never doubt women’s abilities from men’s abilities because they both create wonders in the world!

Equality in genders is important because both men and women are hardworking, and they both can be successful in life when they set their minds to it!

Feeling Special!

Every human being is special in his and her own ways, and they are unique as well no doubt about that!

Human beings are different, but they all have hidden talents which makes each one of them stand out tall.

Each person has great qualities which makes them get what they dream of achieving one day.

We do things that makes us feel happy and give us several reasons to smile in life!

Every moment in life, we should learn to do something that gives us the feeling of being special!

We have one life, and we should live it to the fullest: by feeling special in some way or the other.

Life is too short to waste, so we should spend our precious moments with our loved ones and feel special with them in every way we can!

Surrogacy!

Every woman is not lucky to conceive so she decides to go for surrogacy in life so that she could become a mother. Surrogacy is not an easy process, and it has many formalities too.

It takes lots of courage and patience for the couple who are planning to do the procedure. Even the surrogate mother commits that she is willing to do this because it is not easy for her to hand over her baby to the couple! In surrogacy, the couple goes through several things that makes them think that what they are doing is right or wrong.

A surrogate mother should have these six qualities which are important:

  • Caring
  • Friendly
  • Loyal
  • Supporting
  • Trustworthy
  • Understanding

These qualities are vital for a surrogate mother because these define her characteristics and nature too.

A couple believes in a surrogate mother completely and they expect that she doesn’t cheat on them when the moment comes to give the baby to them. This is the most difficult stage in this process and so the couple needs to find a surrogate mother which is honest and reliable as well.

Surrogacy is a miracle in several women’s lives which makes them believe that they can have a child too!

My Dream House!

Everyone desires to have their dream house one day! We all have many choices of decorating our house in several exciting ways.

My dream house will be in New Delhi which is the capital of India!

These are some things that I would love to do in my dream house: 

  • Have my own bedroom! Paint it with a great color.
  • An Indian style wind chime that will be tied to my bedroom door!
  • A lawn that has a swing where I could sit and have a ride on a swing.
  • Get a beanbag and sit on it to write my articles on my computer!
  • Make my bedroom cozy with lovely furniture and scented candles!
  • Have a small mandir in the corner of my bedroom!
  • Hang beautiful paintings on the walls of my house.
Indian style wind chime brings us good luck!

What is your dream house look like and where would you love to live?